I read an article recently about how women tend to apologize for an inordinate amount of things; even when events are out of their control. So I decided to take notice and note of the things I apologized for, for a few days:
- not standing in the rain without an umbrella
- limping
- having to go to the bathroom
- my daughter’s ADHD
- someone hitting my grocery cart with theirs
- not shaving my armpits
- being half an hour early for an appointment
- a power outage
- having stuff in the trunk of my car
- having to borrow money
- my friend’s daughter being out of town
So… why do women do this? Not all, but most of the women I know apologize for simple everyday things on the daily. Why is it your fault if someone steps on your foot? Or when you don’t respond to a text immediately? Or when your kid flips out at Target for no reason? Wait… maybe an apology is in order for that one.
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